The Marketing Truth Every Mother Already Knows (But Business Owners Ignore)
There’s something my children have been telling me for years that I finally realized is the secret to effective marketing.
They think I’m repetitive.
"You always say the same things, Mom." "We know, we know." "You’ve told us this a million times."
For the longest time, I felt embarrassed about this. Like I was failing as a communicator. Like I should find new ways to say everything, all the time.
But then I had a revelation: The very thing my kids complain about is exactly what makes great marketing work.
The problem is, most business owners are terrified of being seen the same way my kids see me. So they sabotage their own success by constantly changing their message.
The myth of "one and done" marketing
We live in a world obsessed with novelty. New content. Fresh takes. Different angles.
This has created a weird mythology around marketing—that if you’ve said something once, you’re done. That repetition equals failure. That your audience will get annoyed if they hear the same message twice.
It’s complete nonsense.
Your ideal clients aren’t cataloging every piece of content you create. They’re living their lives, juggling businesses and families and a thousand tiny decisions every day. They’re scrolling while distracted, skimming while multitasking.
Your message isn’t competing with other messages. It’s competing with life.
What motherhood taught me about strategic repetition
As a mom, you don’t repeat yourself because you like the sound of your own voice. You repeat yourself because you love your kids and you want the important stuff to stick.
The reminder about kindness. The lesson about responsibility. The values that will serve them forever.
Consistent, patient repetition creates lasting change. It’s not nagging when it’s helping someone build habits that serve them. It’s love in action.
Your clients aren’t ignoring your message because they don’t value it. Their brains are already full, and they need to hear it when they’re ready, in the way they’re ready, at the moment when it finally clicks.
The science behind repetition
The brain needs multiple exposures to new information before it moves from short-term to long-term memory. Marketing researchers call it the "Rule of Seven"—a prospect needs to see your message seven times before taking action.
In our current information environment, I’d argue it’s more like seventeen.
Think about your own behavior. How many times did you see that course ad before you bought? How many podcast interviews before you hired that consultant?
The message that converts isn’t necessarily the best message. It’s the message that reaches them at the right moment.
The difference between nagging and strategic repetition
Strategic repetition means weaving your core message through different stories, examples, and contexts.
Same core message, different entry points:
A personal story that illustrates the concept
A client success story that proves it works
A framework that makes it actionable
An analogy that makes it memorable
A bold statement that makes it quotable
This is what I call the "Golden Thread Framework"—identifying your ONE most important message and threading it through everything you create.
Why you’re under-repeating (not over-repeating)
I’ve worked with hundreds of business owners, and I can count on one hand those who were actually over-repeating their core message.
The rest suffered from "Repetition Anxiety."
They’d mention their breakthrough insight once and never bring it up again. They’d share a transformative framework and immediately move to something completely different.
Meanwhile, 97% of their audience missed it entirely.
You are not your audience. You live and breathe your message every day. Your audience is experiencing it for the first time, or maybe they saw it months ago and forgot.
The permission you’ve been waiting for
You have permission to repeat yourself.
You have permission to talk about the same important concepts again and again, through different stories, with different examples.
You have permission to prioritize transformation over novelty.
Because the alternative—saying something once and hoping it sticks—is doing your audience a disservice.
The people who need what you’re offering deserve to hear it in the way they can finally receive it. You have no idea which version will be the one that finally clicks.
Your expertise deserves to be heard. Your message deserves to change lives.
Stop apologizing for being consistent. Stop worrying about being repetitive.
Strategic repetition isn't annoying—it’s effective marketing disguised as persistence. And if you’re worried you’re becoming a "nag," you’re probably closer than you think to landing the message that transforms everything.
Ready to identify your golden thread and weave it through your marketing in a way that actually converts? Let’s talk about how to make your most important message impossible to ignore. Book a call with me here.